Ditch the Bed and Spice Up Your Sexy Time from lu's blog

The bedroom -- the bed in particular -- may be the most common place in the house for sexual fun, but that doesn't mean there aren't plenty of other options you can explore in your home. In fact, alternatives to sex in bed might be one of the most creative and appealing ways to spice up sexy time.

Why stay bedridden when there are so many other options to explore, including sex furniture and maybe a few of your own pieces?

Not-So-Chaste Hunting

A recliner is ideal because it's large enough to try out different positions, yet compact enough not to take up too much space in a room. If you plan on taking frequent breaks with your sex dolls, a recliner designed for after-work fun is the way to go. However, if you want to see if playing outside the bedroom is right for you, a regular recliner will work too. If your recliner is outside, keep privacy in mind before giving up on your passion.

Carnal Kitchen

This may seem unseemly, but sexy time in the kitchen can mean a lot of fun. One of the reasons sex in the kitchen spices things up is because you can create a multisensory experience. From sipping crisp, cool wine to feeding each other aphrodisiac foods, there are plenty of places to play in the kitchen. From a quick encounter at the counter to a full-on session right on the kitchen floor (just make sure it's clean), the kitchen is ripe for sex-filled fun.

Spin Cycle

This is an oldy-but-goody, but still one of the best ways to spice things up outside of the bedroom. Hop on the washing machine while it's running and get started. Just make sure your washing machine can handle the rocking and rolling you're adding to the mix. Don't just wait for the spin cycle; the hum of the machine feels good no matter what cycle it's on during the act. This option has its limitations, as you obviously can't do multiple positions on the machine.

Up the Fun

A sex ramp differs from a wedge in that it's a little bigger and longer, giving you more options to move around and try different things. Again, you can stash it in a closet when you're not using it and then bring it out when it's pleasure time. Since it's a larger piece of sex furniture, the ramp works best on the floor. But when you see how much you can do with it in terms of different positions, you'll be glad you made the investment.

Start Down the Stairs

If you have a multi-story home and have never really used the stairs before, now is as good a time as any. First things first - stay safe. Of course, if you're going to play on the stairs, use the bottom few. The thing about the stairs is that seemingly simple positions feel completely different due to the height difference. It's true, though, that the stairs aren't necessarily the most comfortable area, so keep this option for quickies. Just watch out for carpet burn when things really get going.

You've got a wedgie

If not, you'll want one soon. Sex wedges are great because that slight shift in position can take a sex move from "meh" to "WOW." One of the best parts about using a wedge is that you can incorporate it into the bed, floor, or other furniture and tuck it away when you're done. Wedges are easy to clean, easy to store, but offer tons of after-hours fun.

Do it on a desk

There are few things hotter than clearing a desk - ANY desk - in the throes of passion and fitting it in then and there. With more people working from home than ever before, that means more home offices and therefore more opportunities to completely destroy them when passion takes over. Again, don't be afraid to get creative. Use your office chair and the desk, climb on the desk or lean over it; there are plenty of ways to play.

Chair Dance

A plain dining room chair seems so simple and yet promises so much. The thing about using a chair as sex furniture is that the possibilities for positions and foreplay are endless. A hot striptease for a chair-bound partner is one way; actually playing with the chair with some bondage options is another. From straddling your partner sitting on the chair to bending over it, chairs offer a surprisingly diverse number of positions for sex play. Just make sure the chair you choose is sturdy enough to accommodate one or both of you.

Shower Down

Another standby that still works. Shower play is fun because you get clean, then dirty, then clean again. Pro tip: don't make it too steamy or you could easily overheat. A warm shower for sex is better than hot because you'll find yourself adding your own heat when you really get into the action. The shower is much better than the tub because the booth contains the water more effectively. If you plan on doing it in the shower a lot, consider a grab bar. You may think they're only for those who need help, but you'll be surprised how much a grab bar gives you leverage during some sexy shower time.

Comfy Sofa

This seems like an obvious choice, but you may be surprised at how many people completely overlook the couch for sexy fun. One of the reasons a couch is a great choice is because you can play on and around it. From the armrest of the couch to the deep, soft and comfortable cushions, there are few positions that won't work on the couch. Just make sure that if you live in a communal living environment, you have complete privacy before taking some sexy time in the living room.