4 things men still haven't understood about women from rohit's blog

During my more or less disastrous love life, I had the opportunity to make some rather alarming observations. Men know absolutely nothing about women.

They still fall for stereotypes that shouldn't even exist. Moreover, many men are attracted to women who have clearly toxic behaviors.

However, when a woman pleases him, a man will find all the excuses in the world, all the justifications he can imagine to explain her attitude.

For example, I will give you a concrete example. A week ago my best friend told me that his partner forced his hand to seriously engage with her.

His excuse? If he does not, she will return to her ex who is still chasing her and who wants to marry her. My best friend did what any sane man would have done: he asked for her hand in marriage.

Of course, I'm kidding. His reaction is unreasonable. This is completely crazy ! If a woman has a man in her life who she considers to be better than you, she is going to leave you for him.

But she only has to be pretty for everything to be forgiven. So yes, love is blind. But lust is blind and deaf and stupid. 

Thus, one can notice a big difference in the way that men and women approach romantic relationships nowadays. We women tend to choose our life partners with a lot more care and attention.

For example, it is very important to us that our family and friendsaccept and appreciate our man. Yes, we listen to their advice and suggestions. 

We pay particular attention to what the other men in our life have to say about our sweetheart. After all, they know how a man thinks.

But you gentlemen, you completely forget the word “caution”, because taking risks is romantic! In any case, in your mind. All that matters to you is that you like her physically and the rest is not important.

You don't think anyone understands your sweetheart like you. So his toxic behaviors aren't unhealthy, they're adorable. It's so cute ...

Or not ! In my opinion, this is mostly stupid and naive. Gentlemen, please stop falling for the manipulative woman. Find someone who doesn't play kid games.

To help you out, I've made a list of the 4 biggest traps you fall into. Now you won't be able to say that you didn't know! 

I have noticed that men are particularly drawn to women who use the “follow me, run away from you” tactic; escape me and I will follow you". It can be fun for a while, but in the long run it's exhausting.

Moreover, romantic relationships that begin with this kind of game become immature and unstable relationships. And nothing can correct the situation.

So, are you looking for love or a playmate? Mature and emotionally intelligent people do not play with the feelings of others.

Why run after a woman who plays or who pretends she doesn't care about you? There are a lot of opportunities for you. And once you figure that out, you'll finally be happy.

The only guarantee we have in life is that we will spend it entirely with ourselves; so why not choose a partner who loves you for who you are?

On the other hand, if you don't love the person you are, no romantic relationship is going to be able to help you fill this void. There comes a time in life when those looking for a mate need to clearly ask themselves if they are looking for an adult relationship or if they are chasing an unhealthy emotional attachment. 

You are in a new relationship and she asks you to buy her some gifts. Initially, you have no problem with that, because its demands are not exaggerated.

But over time, its demands become more and more large and onerous. So stop right now! When I see a friend of mine behaving like this, I want to slap him.

You don't work to provide for your girlfriend'ssuperficial needs. Of course, if you have nothing to offer intellectually, emotionally, and spiritually, you don't have many options.

But a woman's heart shouldn't be bought. And if your sweetheart asks you to do it, go! There is nothing wrong with giving flowers, a restaurant or a small gift every now and then.

But it doesn't have to become a habit. And above all, the expenses should not be exorbitant. Especially when it comes to the early stages of a romantic relationship.

Her constant attention means she has no life. The fact that her world revolves around you may seem flattering at first, but trust me… It will tire you quickly.

Likewise, the fact that she always wants to do what you want to do should be a major red flag. This means that she is too insecure to assert her own interests and needs.

Or worse, it means that nothing interests him outside of your relationship. And this kind of woman is extremely boring. Chiante! Even though she is super beautiful, the fact that she follows you around and says Amen to whatever you want isn't healthy.

This creates a strong codependency. Sooner or later you are going to feel like you can't breathe or move without it. And finally, you will understand that your partner is gradually becoming your child, and not the love of your life. 

Even though she's really, really sexy.

How many times have you dated a woman who didn't like the fact that you were dating your friends? Who was harassing you with messages? Or who asks you hundreds of questions as soon as you leave your home?

And how many times have these women explained this behavior by saying that they loved you infinitely or that you were so awesome that they were afraid of losing you?

Well, that's a lie. She's jealous because she's insecure and neurotic, and no, you can't love her enough to heal it.

A strong, confident woman doesn't feel jealous unless she thinks you are untrustworthy. So, either you have hung on to someone who is unreliable or you have hung on to someone who doesn't trust you.

Neither of these situations is good. If she's not sure about herself, you're going to have a hell of a relationship. If she is sure of herself, she will leave you as soon as she is sure that she cannot trust you. 

The most important thing to know when looking for love is that you must first accept yourself and love yourself for who you are.

When you feel good about yourself, predators (yes, there are female predators!), Manipulators, and victims will not be attracted to you.

When you are not looking for someone to tell you that you are worthy of love and attention, this is where true love finds you.